This is where I did things a little differently than last time — I sawed right up to the edge of the center panel against the cabinet frame. This takes a little bit more of a steady hand but it doesn’t have to be perfect!
This is where I did things a little differently than last time — I sawed right up to the edge of the center panel against the cabinet frame. This takes a little bit more of a steady hand but it doesn’t have to be perfect!
First up – this truly scrumptious slow cooker chicken and dumplings recipe:
If your soup is a bit thick, add chicken broth or chicken soup to your liking.
That whole not stirring thing was so hard for me. I always feel the need to stir. 🙂
Ohhh…I’m drooling just thinking about it. SO. GOOD.
At the end of the cooking time, get a small bowl and mix the salt, pepper and flour.
A roux is a mixture used as thickener for stews, soups and gravy.
While still on low heat, finish the roux by whisking in the half and half a little at a time until completely smooth:
Stir this yummy mixture into the soup in the crock pot then let it cook on low for 15 more minutes.
You can’t go wrong with any of these favorite slow cooker comfort foods.
Here’s a helpful pinnable image for you to save these recipes for later:
Hello there my friends! I experienced this sort of a terrific response to our cat litter remedy a couple
weeks back, I figured I might round up a couple additional fun thoughts for hiding the litter
whilst continue to creating kitty come to feel cozy.
These are all Do-it-yourself strategies, but I share some keep acquired products that search
wonderful at the end of the publish also.
Our vacuum and some other objects are on the right side as very well.
This has worked out SO perfectly for us and the cats seem to be to really like it! It is really been so
easy to retain the mud area clean now way too. Cat litter appears to be to keep track of in all places
but most of it stays in the closet.
I know not absolutely everyone has a cleaning closet they can use for the litter so I
gathered some other concepts as well. Most of these Do it yourself cat litter methods
hardly just take up any room and seem Excellent! Click on the connection under just about every image to
get to the tutorial.
Danae utilized a quite IKEA cupboard to disguise the litter and all of the
equipment:
Adore this! When it is really shut you’d have no idea what is hiding within.
Jennifer made use of a facet table to make this adorable cat “cave” for their
kitty!:
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Amanda took a thrifted cupboard and turned it into a spot to hide the cat
litter:
What a magnificent kitty! Other than the minimize out on the aspect, no 1 would at any time
know this is hiding cat litter.
I noticed this plan on the internet and while it was so smart! I appreciate how they utilized the
little space below the sink to cover the cat litter:
You can find not a ton of place for significantly down there in any case, so why not make it extra
functional?
Zoe created a rustic cat litter box that would be a best bench for a
mud home:
I like that the lid lifts up so it truly is effortless to clean.
Scott reworked this outdated kitchen area island into a wonderful attractive cupboard
that also hides the litter:
He shares entire ideas to make your have! So quite a few of us have a cabinet that could
be changed up fairly very easily to accommodate the litter.
Do you have a doggy that you want to retain out of the cat litter? This
solution is a wonderful alternative due to the fact the prime entry keeps the canine out:
I like that this seems to be like a normal cupboard from the front!
This enjoyment cat apartment was produced by repurposing two finish tables:
The cat litter is at the bottom and you will find storage on leading. This pretty piece
fits appropriate into the decor!
And eventually, 1 of my favorites — this total established up is like the penthouse of
cat litter options. I really like every single little bit of it!:
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SO cool. The techniques and door are super lovable way too.
So many fantastic concepts that marry equally form and perform. I have discovered our cats
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Have you discovered a excellent solution that hides the cat litter?
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This easy garage doorway update does just that! I have done this a couple
situations above the years and I’m normally shocked at how substantially it definitely variations up
the doors.
But I understood this simple addition would make them even more wonderful.
I experienced to use components you connect with screws on our doorways:
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Most of the sets I’ve discovered appear with two handles and four “hinges.”
At to start with I only had a person set of hinges up on the leading trim, but I later extra
the set at the bottom and it really accomplished the search:
They really don’t interfere with the operation of the doorways at all. Most have a rust resistant coating that retains up terrific outside the house. The established I put on our garage doorways at the past property has been up for 8
decades and have not rusted at all!
But you should not be fearful! It will be value it!
It is not a large transform, but on a avenue of basic garage doorways, yours
will stand out!
I really like a straightforward and cheap update! Have you experimented with transforming up
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people fake windows? Do inform!
There are a ton of magnetic
options! This a person is only $12 and this
magnetic components is $17.
This Do-it-yourself landscape lights tutorial is one more exterior update that will
make your house search way more expensive!:
I didn’t notice it as much with that one for some reason.
I told you about my new love affair with the best paint sprayer I’ve used — if you are considering this project I HIGHLY recommend it. It will get the job done well.
This is the entire cabinet painting process, step by step to break it down for you. Painting your cabinets is NOT hard. It’s a practice in patience and it can be stressful at times, but it’s not hard. 🙂
OK here we go!
1. Remove and label all of your drawer and cabinet fronts.
Number your cabinets doors when you take them off — use painters tape and a sharpie and write the number of the cabinet on the tape. This will eliminate the guessing game of where they go back when you are done!
2. Wipe down your cabinets with a wet rag, then sand lightly. I used a 220 grit sanding sponge:
I recommend wiping them down first. If there’s crud on them, sometimes that just gums up the sanding block. It’s best to clean them a bit first and then sand.
3. After sanding you need to clean them well.
Cleaning is by far the most important step.
The lower cabinets were mixed in Sherwin-Williams Peppercorn, the uppers in Pure White.
When the rain stopped the dry time got much shorter, but it’s never a bad idea to let them dry a little longer if you can.
If you do the same, ask your granite installers to hold off on the silicone underneath and you can do it after you paint.
I thought the process would take me a week, but it would be difficult for one person to get it done that fast with the dry time needed.
Are you considering getting back with an ex?
Many of us find ourselves in this situation post-break-up and wonder if we’ve made the right decision.
Have we just dodged a bullet or made the BIGGEST mistake or our lives?!
The problem is that too many movies and TV shows romanticize getting back with an ex (hello, Ross and Rachel). You’re rooting for the make-believe couple so badly that you forget about all the pain, drama, and messiness that goes with re-igniting that flame.
According to family therapist David Klow, human beings are wired to seek both attachment and new experiences. Hence why the prospect of getting back with an ex is so appealing—it ticks both of these boxes. On top of that, the alternative can be far less attractive. Swiping endlessly on dating apps, going on crummy dates, and meeting crappy guys who don’t even come close to what you’re looking for.
Getting to know someone brand new takes a lot of time. And there’s never any guarantee that things will work out. So your mind starts thinking, surely it makes more sense to give things another shot with the ex than start afresh? You already know each other intimately, and maybe things will work out the second time around?
Maybe they will, and maybe they won’t.
According to a survey by the Associated Press, 41% of people have gotten back together with an ex at some point. So you wouldn’t be in bad company if you did, but whether it works out or not is an entirely different issue.
There are so many factors to consider before you jump back into a relationship that you consciously ended.
I’m not going to sit here and say this is never a good idea because there are cases where a bit of time and space apart is all you both need to realize that you want to build a life together.
However, you must go into this with your eyes wide open.
Why do you want to get back with your ex?
How did you leave things, and is your ex open to reconciliation?
What went wrong the first time, can it be resolved, and are you both willing to do what it takes to work through that?
Have you given yourself enough breathing space to properly reflect and see whether you’re a good match?
“As long as there aren’t serious issues such as abusive behavior in the relationship and each partner really cares about the other, a second chance at a successful relationship could work.”—Noelle Nelson, Ph.D., psychologist and author of Dangerous Relationships.
Here are 14 things you must consider BEFORE getting back with an ex.
We all know how devastating and emotionally rough a breakup can be. It’s normal to feel like you’re grieving (even though the person hasn’t died) because you’re experiencing the loss of having this person as a constant rock in your life.
This can leave you feeling a rollercoaster of emotions. You might be lonely, sad, feeling guilty (if you broke up with him), angry, resentful, lost, and lacking self-confidence and self-love.
And when you’re feeling lonely and heartbroken, like your world just isn’t going to be sunny again, it can lead you to make poor choices that aren’t good for you in the long run.
So, ask yourself, do you really want him back, or are you just trying to avoid going through the pain of a breakup? Do you genuinely miss him, or do you miss having someone there with you when you wake up and go to sleep?
If you’re struggling with the breakup, there are plenty of things you can do to make yourself feel better, including:
It’s normal that there are certain things you will miss about being in a relationship. Things like dinners out, Netflix and chill nights in with pizza, and good sex with someone you’re comfortable with and who knows exactly what you want.
Put all those things aside for a moment and think about whether you’ve had enough time apart to make a clear and considered decision about getting back with your ex.
From the moment you start considering the possibility, give yourself a week to mull it over. Once that’s up, give yourself another week. And once you get there, give yourself—yes, you guessed it—ANOTHER week. Keep doing this until you reach a healthy amount of time (at least two months).
This time will allow you to see your relationship clearly. It will also give you the space needed to think about what you need and whether this is right for you.
Don’t rush yourself out of fear of them moving on and dating someone else. If you’re both on the same page and wanting to make it work, he will still be there when you’re ready to make a decision.
The time and space you have on your own right now are perfect for doing some much-needed self-reflection.
Who are you?
How have you grown since starting and ending things with your ex?
What do you want in a relationship now? Is this different from what you wanted previously?
Was there anything significant missing in your relationship the last time, and can this be resolved the second time around?
Many things can easily be resolved as long as you’re both willing to put in the work. For example, you can strengthen your communication, appreciate each other more, and make sure you devote more time to your relationship.
However, other things are not as easy to fix—big goals and values. Like maybe one of you wants to get married while the other doesn’t. Or perhaps you want to take a job abroad, but your partner is adamant they want to stay put.
What’s important is you both know what you want and what you’re not willing to compromise on.
This is part of my Little Love Step #2: Creating your love vision. When you take the time to figure out the man and relationship that is compatible with the future you want, you’ll be able to attract the right man and avoid the wrong relationships.
One exercise that can be helpful when thinking about getting back with an ex is to pretend your best friend is the one going through this right now.
What advice would you give her?
Would you tell her to take a bit more time and see how she feels once she’s stopped hurting? Or would you tell her to jump right in, because what does she have to lose?
The answers to these questions depend on the relationship in question. If you knew they were having lots of arguments, and you constantly had to pick up the pieces, you’d be more likely to remind her of the bad times and ask her to think about it carefully.
So I invite you to do the same for yourself.
I see a lot of women considering getting back with an ex primarily out of fear of being on their own and being single again.
Even if the relationship clearly wasn’t healthy or functional, they would rather be miserable in a couple than miserable on their own.
But what I need you to know is if you dislike being single so much that you would rather settle being with someone who isn’t good for you, then there are bigger issues at play here that you need to address before even thinking about being in a relationship.
If you allow fear to dictate your choices, you will shrink a little more each day as a woman until you wake up one day and realize you’ve completely lost who you are. I understand that being single—especially after being with someone for so long—is terrifying. But this can also be a beautiful opportunity to rediscover yourself, have new experiences, and create a life that brings you real joy.
So before getting back with an ex, be honest about what your primary motive is. And if it’s rooted in fear, this is not a good reason to do it!
In my experience, women are in danger of allowing their first impression of people to cloud their judgment of a person’s true character. So, even if there is an orchard of red flags, you may end up clinging onto a vision of how you want things to be or how they used to be instead of how they are.
One way to get a more accurate picture of your relationship is to make a timeline. Write down all the significant events—good and bad. Get them all out until you have nothing else to say.
When you’re done, read this back to yourself. Then ask yourself if this man and relationship are really what you want. Is your ex who you think they are or have you been living with rose-tinted glasses on the whole time?
It may feel like you’re being pulled in different directions right now.
Part of you thinks you broke up for a reason and should leave things in the past and move on. While the other part of you wonders, what if we gave it one more shot and ended up living happily ever after?
Writing an old-school list of pros and cons can help bring you clarity when you feel like this. The act of listing out the positives and negatives of being and not being with your ex will move you into a rational space that can help you decide.
How do you feel now that your ex is gone? Is your life better or worse?
This can be difficult to answer if your breakup is fresh and you’re still feeling lonely and missing him in your life.
So, think back to when you were still together. Did the good days outweigh the bad? Were there more positives about your relationship than negatives? Did your ex make you a better version of yourself or a lesser version of yourself?
All relationships will have their ups and downs, but generally, you should be experiencing good days 90% of the time. And your partner should undoubtedly improve your life instead of creating more conflict or frustration.
Don’t consider getting back with an ex unless he, hand on heart, made your world brighter when he was in it.
Whatever happened in your relationship—lying, cheating, hurtful comments, etc.—you must both be willing to let the past go and forgive. That means not rehashing old wounds when you next argue and committing to leaving the past in the past and starting a blank slate.
For example, if there were trust issues between you before, unless you’re willing and able to fully trust your partner this time around, things are unlikely to end well. Maybe your partner forgets to text you when he’s coming home late after going out with the guys, and that leads you down a negative spiral wondering if he’s really with the guys or not telling you the whole truth. When he does finally make it home, you might end up blowing up at him because you’re thinking of his past mistakes.
This doesn’t mean you can’t have healthy disagreements, but it does mean you have to handle conflicts in a calm and mature way without trying to score points.
There are certain things that you won’t be able to forgive, so it all comes down to if you feel able to move forward or not.
Can a broken relationship ever be fixed?
Getting back with an ex won’t work if you cannot fix what caused the breakup the first time around. Without taking this critical step, you’ll end up going round in circles and experiencing the same issues again until you address them.
So, are you able to fix what went wrong? And if so, are you both willing to put the work in to do it? Little Love Step #6 of my methodology is to set clear boundaries as a couple to set your relationship up for long-term success.
Before you commit to getting back with your ex, it’s essential to have a chat about what happened while you were broken up.
For example, did you date anyone else? Did you sleep with anyone else?
You don’t have to go into details about who, what, and where (unless, of course, it involves a mutual friend, in which case, you DO need to give details). But make sure everything is out in the open to avoid any skeletons coming out the closet later down the line.
We don’t do this enough as human beings, but our intuition is a powerful tool—especially for women.
When was the last time you checked in with yourself and that little voice in the back of your head or the whispers of your heart?
Tune in to your intuition and allow it to guide you in making a decision. And if you decide getting back with your ex is the right choice for you, make sure you continue to trust your intuition along the way. If something ever feels wrong, trust and act on that inner feeling—it won’t steer you wrong and will only grow louder until you listen to it.
If you decide to try round two with your ex, be prepared for your friends and family to be on a different page.
This is especially true if you have often gone to them for advice during rows, you’ve spoken negatively to them about your ex, or they’ve seen you upset during the lowest moments of the relationship. They will remember all the bad things and may remind you of them.
As long as you trust your family and friends, remember that they are looking out for you and only want the best for you. Avoid being defensive. Listen to what they have to say and acknowledge their concerns. Tell them you appreciate their advice, explain why you’re making this choice, and promise to keep them updated.
A 2013 study found almost half of all couples get back together after breaking up and that the couples who do get back together assume their partner will have changed for the better.
Why on earth would you ASSUME something like that?
Sure, it’d be great if that were the case, but you’re in for a shocker if your partner is the same as before.
The truth is, while some people can and do change, most people are more likely to stay the same. It’s so easy for couples who already know each other to slip back into old, negative patterns. So if there are certain things you cannot accept about this guy, it’s worth rethinking getting back with him.
I could give you a ton more advice than what you’ve read here, you could speak to all your friends and even work with a dating coach. But at the end of the day, you know yourself and your ex, and only you can decide whether to give things another shot.
But remember to be completely honest with yourself. If you do want to get back with him, make sure it’s for the right reasons.
Are you thinking about getting back with an ex, or have you ever done so in the past? Tell me all about it in the comments below!
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